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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Here is finally an update to the way overdue reading list as requested by some of you. This time I have a selection of lifestyle &#38; health improvement books but also a recommendation in the field of parapsychology. Hope you all enjoy! &#160; Daily Rituals: How Artists Work There are many times in my life [&#8230;]</p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is finally an update to the way overdue reading list as requested by some of you. This time I have a selection of lifestyle &amp; health improvement books but also a recommendation in the field of parapsychology. Hope you all enjoy!</p>
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<h1 id="title" class="a-size-large a-spacing-none"><span id="productTitle" class="a-size-large"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307273601/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=211189&amp;creative=373489&amp;creativeASIN=0307273601&amp;link_code=as3&amp;tag=inra09-20&amp;linkId=BTPHXJHENA3QAJAE" target="_blank"><img title = ""class="size-medium wp-image-302 alignright" src="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/517lOS+zzmL-202x300.jpg" alt = "Best INFJ Books: Recommended Reading List #3 517lOS+zzmL-202x300 Lifestyle Popular Posts Uncategorized " width="202" height="300" srcset="https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/517lOS+zzmL-202x300.jpg 202w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/517lOS+zzmL.jpg 337w" sizes="(max-width: 202px) 100vw, 202px" /></a></span></h1>
<h1 id="title" class="a-size-large a-spacing-none"><span id="productTitle" class="a-size-large"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307273601/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=211189&amp;creative=373489&amp;creativeASIN=0307273601&amp;link_code=as3&amp;tag=inra09-20&amp;linkId=BTPHXJHENA3QAJAE" target="_blank">Daily Rituals: How Artists Work</a><a href="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/517lOS+zzmL.jpg"><br />
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<p>There are many times in my life where I have questioned my own sanity when it comes to creativity and work related habits. Sometimes it is easy to feel alone in the world when it comes to these things and this book is a true gem when it comes to revealing the secret lives of many of the most talented artists in the history of time. This book proves not only that most of us is far from perfect and that we all struggle, but also contains insight on productive and life sustaining habits from some of the most talented minds in history. For me this book was a great comfort in times of struggle but also a motivational tool to keep me going. One of my most interesting reads this year, highly recommended!</p>
<p><em>Franz Kafka, frustrated with his living quarters and day job, wrote in a letter to Felice Bauer in 1912, “time is short, my strength is limited, the office is a horror, the apartment is noisy, and if a pleasant, straightforward life is not possible then one must try to wriggle through by subtle maneuvers.”</em><br />
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<em>Kafka is one of 161 inspired—and inspiring—minds, among them, novelists, poets, playwrights, painters, philosophers, scientists, and mathematicians, who describe how they subtly maneuver the many (self-inflicted) obstacles and (self-imposed) daily rituals to get done the work they love to do, whether by waking early or staying up late; whether by self-medicating with doughnuts or bathing, drinking vast quantities of coffee, or taking long daily walks. Thomas Wolfe wrote standing up in the kitchen, the top of the refrigerator as his desk, dreamily fondling his “male configurations”. . . Jean-Paul Sartre chewed on Corydrane tablets (a mix of amphetamine and aspirin), ingesting ten times the recommended dose each day . . . Descartes liked to linger in bed, his mind wandering in sleep through woods, gardens, and enchanted palaces where he experienced “every pleasure imaginable.”</em></p>
<p><em>Here are: Anthony Trollope, who demanded of himself that each morning he write three thousand words (250 words every fifteen minutes for three hours) before going off to his job at the postal service, which he kept for thirty-three years during the writing of more than two dozen books . . . Karl Marx . . . Woody Allen . . . Agatha Christie . . . George Balanchine, who did most of his work while ironing . . . Leo Tolstoy . . . Charles Dickens . . . Pablo Picasso . . . George Gershwin, who, said his brother Ira, worked for twelve hours a day from late morning to midnight, composing at the piano in pajamas, bathrobe, and slippers . . .</em></p>
<p><em>Here also are the daily rituals of Charles Darwin, Andy Warhol, John Updike, Twyla Tharp, Benjamin Franklin, William Faulkner, Jane Austen, Anne Rice, and Igor Stravinsky (he was never able to compose unless he was sure no one could hear him and, when blocked, stood on his head to “clear the brain”).</em></p>
<p><em>Brilliantly compiled and edited, and filled with detail and anecdote, Daily Rituals is irresistible, addictive, magically inspiring.</em></p>
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<h1 id="title" class="a-size-large a-spacing-none"><span id="productTitle" class="a-size-large"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0895561182/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=211189&amp;creative=373489&amp;creativeASIN=0895561182&amp;link_code=as3&amp;tag=inra09-20&amp;linkId=6C6S7FFD6U2Z7L4A" target="_blank"><img title = ""class="size-medium wp-image-305 alignright" src="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/51-eFdMJRVL-195x300.jpg" alt = "Best INFJ Books: Recommended Reading List #3 51-eFdMJRVL-195x300 Lifestyle Popular Posts Uncategorized " width="195" height="300" srcset="https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/51-eFdMJRVL-195x300.jpg 195w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/51-eFdMJRVL.jpg 326w" sizes="(max-width: 195px) 100vw, 195px" />The Book of Floating: Exploring the Private Sea</a></span></h1>
<p>At the start of 2014 I tried floating (sensory deprivation tank) for the first time and I have kept it up as often as I can ever since. Floating is an amazing experience which is difficult to put into words. If you are interested in meditation and exploring your mind you will love floating. The best part is that it will supercharge your meditation practice and make it possible for you to reach deeper levels quickly which would otherwise take up to years to develop. With practice floating makes OBE and astral projection experiences a reality and provides deep emotional relaxation that lasts for a long time after your floating session. In some countries floating is used as a proven treatment for depression, anxiety and insomnia. If you have a possibility to try floating where you live I highly recommend it, I will write more about floating in my upcoming ebook.</p>
<p id="yui_3_17_2_1_1407404384616_475" style="color: #666666"><em>Michael Hutchison wrote a definitive book about all the studies done concerning floating. The book is called &#8220;The Book of Floating&#8221;. He addresses sleep studies and brain wave states where floaters were compared to Tibetan Lamas. It seems that for every year a Zen Monk or Tibetan Lama meditates, their brain can produce one minute of &#8220;Theta&#8221; brain wave while meditating. Theta is the mystical brain wave that normal people only produce for a split second when falling asleep and then again when waking, it&#8217;s considered a euphoric brain state.</em></p>
<p style="color: #666666"><em>With this premise a monk who has been meditating for 20 years can produce up to twenty minutes of Theta brain wave while in meditation. Michael says however, that these are the only people in the world who are able to produce theta like this except floaters. Michael&#8217;s book says that floating studies revealed that floaters with no meditation experience easily produced twenty minutes of Theta durring a one hour floating session.</em></p>
<p style="color: #666666"><em>There are many other stories, studies, anecdotes and revealing facts regarding FAQ and paranoia about drowning, sanitation, constructing a tank, and claustrophobia, etc. </em></p>
<p style="color: #666666">Get it here:<br />
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<h1 id="title" class="a-size-large a-spacing-none"><span id="productTitle" class="a-size-large"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1890572152/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=211189&amp;creative=373489&amp;creativeASIN=1890572152&amp;link_code=as3&amp;tag=inra09-20&amp;linkId=4YEOPIBHWDA66BT3" target="_blank"><img title = ""class="size-medium wp-image-307 alignright" src="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/512-260H8L._SY344_BO1204203200_-201x300.jpg" alt = "Best INFJ Books: Recommended Reading List #3 512-260H8L._SY344_BO1204203200_-201x300 Lifestyle Popular Posts Uncategorized " width="201" height="300" srcset="https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/512-260H8L._SY344_BO1204203200_-201x300.jpg 201w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/512-260H8L._SY344_BO1204203200_.jpg 232w" sizes="(max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px" /></a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1890572152/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=211189&amp;creative=373489&amp;creativeASIN=1890572152&amp;link_code=as3&amp;tag=inra09-20&amp;linkId=4YEOPIBHWDA66BT3" target="_blank">Adrenal Fatigue: The 21st Century Stress Syndrome</a></span></h1>
<p>If you suffer from chronic stress, fatigue, anxiety or insomnia I highly suggest you read up on adrenal disorders. Especially if you are an HSP which are more susceptible to these kinds of problems. It is estimated that 90% of doctors visits are for issues that stem from stress. Prolonged stress is also the source of most of our diseases like cancer, cardiovascular disease and diabetes, which all belong to some of the most common causes of death in modern society. Stress disorders is something that are just now beginning to be fully understood and I believe that in the future it will be one of the most important things to educate the public about in order to prevent disease. I have personal experience with suffering from adrenal fatigue and chronic low cortisol levels, this book is one of the best ones on the subject and provides lot&#8217;s of good tips on how to heal. I will be writing more about these type of problems in my upcoming ebook.</p>
<p><em>Dr. James Wilson has helped hundreds of people with adrenal fatigue regain their health and vitality during his 24 years of private practice. For the past 10 years he has also lectured extensively to physicians and is acknowledged as an expert on adrenal function and other endocrine imbalances, and their impact on health. With a researcher’s grasp of the science behind adrenal function and a clinician’s understanding of its human impact, he has helped many understand the physiology behind the condition.One of the few people to hold 3 doctorate degrees and 2 master’s degrees, all from different disciplines, he received his Ph.D. in Human Nutrition from the University of Arizona, with minors in immunology, microbiol-ogy, pharmacology and toxicology. In addition, he holds degrees as a Doctor of Chiropractic and Doctor of Naturopathic Medicine. His master’s degrees are in bio/nutrition and experimental psychology. Dr. Wilson was also one of 14 founding fathers of the Canadian College of Naturopathic medicine (CCNM) in Toronto, Ontario. He is listed in The International Who’s Who in Medicine (Cambridge, England) and currently resides in Tucson, Arizona.</em></p>
<p>Get it here:<br />
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<h1 id="title" class="a-size-large a-spacing-none"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0142003646/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=211189&amp;creative=373489&amp;creativeASIN=0142003646&amp;link_code=as3&amp;tag=inra09-20&amp;linkId=5VFJAIBI3ETIHSZN" target="_blank"><img title = ""class="size-medium wp-image-310 alignright" src="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/The-Mood-Cure-9780142003640-201x300.jpg" alt = "Best INFJ Books: Recommended Reading List #3 The-Mood-Cure-9780142003640-201x300 Lifestyle Popular Posts Uncategorized " width="201" height="300" srcset="https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/The-Mood-Cure-9780142003640-201x300.jpg 201w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/The-Mood-Cure-9780142003640.jpg 269w" sizes="(max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px" />The Mood Cure: The 4-Step Program to Take Charge of Your Emotions&#8211;Today</a></h1>
<p>This is the #1 book on the field of treating health problems like depression, insomnia and fatigue with the supplementation of amino acids. This approach is superior to antidepressants like SSRIs and should always be tried first before considering any medication. The reason why this is not done is because you cannot patent these amino acids because they exist naturally in our bodies, hence there is no money to be made for big pharma. Germany is one of the few countries in the world where doctors often consider a more natural approach like this before prescribing antidepressant medications. Amino acids like 5-HTP, Tryptophan, GABA, Tyrosine and Phenylalanine are used to correct imbalances in serotonin, dopamine, GABA and endorphins that help regulate our moods.</p>
<p><em><b>Are you a part of the bad mood epidemic? Here are the answers you&#8217;ve been looking for!</b></em></p>
<p><em>Julia Ross’s plan provides a natural cure for your mood. Drawing on thirty years of experience, she presents breakthrough solutions to overcoming depression, anxiety, irritability, stress, and other negative emotional states that are diminishing the quality of our lives. Her comprehensive program is  based on the use of four mood-building amino acids and other surprisingly potent nutrient supplements, plus a diet rich in good-mood foods such as protein, healthy fat, and certain key vegetables. Including an individualized mood-type questionnaire,<b>The Mood Cure</b> has all the tools to help</em><br />
<em>you get started today and feel better tomorrow.</em></p>
<p>Get it here:<br />
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<p>Here is a interesting read on consciousness from the talented mind of one, if not the most famous psychologist of all time, Carl Jung. Synchronicity is the word for the meaningful coincidences that appear both in the external world and in the mind. On multiple occasions in my life strange things have happened which I cannot explain. Things that seem connected but cannot possibly be because the chance that they would is so extremely small. An simplified example would be the times when you thought about something or said something, just to have it appear or be mentioned on television or in a song a few seconds later. It happens to all of us but science have yet to been able to explain the nature of this phenomenon. In this book Carl Jung provides his beliefs and experiences with it and provides ample food for thought for you to explore this further in the mysterious world of consciousness.</p>
<p><em>Jung was intrigued from early in his career with coincidences, especially those surprising juxtapositions that scientific rationality could not adequately explain. He discussed these ideas with Albert Einstein before World War I, but first used the term &#8220;synchronicity&#8221; in a 1930 lecture, in reference to the unusual psychological insights generated from consulting the I Ching. A long correspondence and friendship with the Nobel Prize-winning physicist Wolfgang Pauli stimulated a final, mature statement of Jung&#8217;s thinking on synchronicity, originally published in 1952 and reproduced here. Together with a wealth of historical and contemporary material, this essay describes an astrological experiment Jung conducted to test his theory.Synchronicity reveals the full extent of Jung&#8217;s research into a wide range of psychic phenomena.</em></p>
<p><em>This paperback edition of Jung&#8217;s classic work includes a new foreword by Sonu Shamdasani, Philemon Professor of Jung History at University College London.</em></p>
<p>Get it here:<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0691150508/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=211189&amp;creative=373489&amp;creativeASIN=0691150508&amp;link_code=as3&amp;tag=inra09-20&amp;linkId=N4DXWBY463PQI3JU" target="_blank">Synchronicity: An Acausal Connecting Principle. (From Vol. 8. of the Collected Works of C. G. Jung) (Bollingen Series XX: the Collected Works of C. G. Jung, Volume 8)</a></p>
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<p>If you&#8217;re an INFJ, HSP, empath or intuitive personality, it is safe to say we all share the challenge of staying balanced emotionally in life. But it has to do with a lot more then just emotions. Our bodies and mind are way more interconnected then we want to believe they are, and when you are facing emotional distress in life it can often come in a physical form, like burnout or <a href="http://infjramblings.com/2016/08/lithium-orotate-anxiety-benefits.html" target="_blank">depression</a>. Western healthcare have always approach health in a very non holistic way. That mental and physical health are separate issues and have often only put emphasis on treating symptoms then actually solving health problems or preventing them. Health should be approached as a whole process since everything in our body is part of an whole, your brain controls your entire body and your brain is the outlet of your conscious self. Chronic illness can stem from longterm emotional distress, just as mental illness can grow from always being sick in your body.</p>
<p>Being an intuitive, empath or HSP type of personality makes you even more vulnerable to these kinds of health issues. You are easier pressured and stress is felt on a higher level then other people do. Emotional distress from things that happen in your life takes a greater toll on you and demands from family, friends and work can easily leave you feeling burned out and unable to handle, or even face the situations. Most of us learn all of this the hard way and statistics show that all of us will be depressed and reach some form of adrenal burnout during our lifetimes, some more times then others. If you are more susceptible to these things then you are also in more danger of suffering major depressions, mental illnesses, eating disorders, drug use and health issues like for example hypertension and cardiovascular disease.</p>
<p>Because of this we owe it to ourselves and others to develop good coping mechanisms in life to help us overcome these problems and also show others how they can. If you look around yourself in life among your friends and family, you can easily see that we all have some kind of crutch in life, something we can depend on for safety and comfort when life becomes painful. It might be as common as comfort food, using television as an escape or abuse of alcohol, drugs, sex and pornography. Or if you remember those kids back in school that used to pick on everybody, that was their way of coping with their own issues at home, like and escape so they would not be the ones feeling the worst all the time. Needless to say we all have these habits as a way of self defense from our own pains. The problem is these habits can grow out of control and cause further issues in our lives. When you never learn to correctly face your own emotions and problems you will eventually grow unable to handle them at all, this is where depression, panic attacks, chronic fatigue syndrome and the like kicks in. It is at this point where you realize your crutches doesn&#8217;t hold up anymore and you feel overwhelmed and hopeless, unable to rid yourself of your own pain. In almost all type of depression and stress disorders, particularly feelings of overwhelm and hopelessness is the primary culprits.</p>
<p>The way we need to change here is in the way we view the world. Because the world is not responsible for our own emotions, we are. What we need to understand is that peace and happiness is not something we will every find out there in the external world, it is something that we can only find within ourselves. To quote the Buddha, the mind if the forerunner of all things. Just as you are what you eat, you also are what you think. If you keep grasping and holding on to pain, longings and demands you put on people and life, you will never be able to get away from those negative thoughts. Only when you understand that the world and our minds are ever changing, that every negative emotion and thought will pass just as the one before it. That you as a person is not made up by your thoughts, they are just as clouds floating by on a blue sky. What you need to learn is to see them for what they really are and let them pass by.</p>
<p>What I&#8217;m talking about here is very much the practice of mindfulness and meditation, two healthy ways of learning to understand your mind and emotions. They offer ways of overcoming the pain of life and also how to reach a state of happiness not related to anything in our external world. The best thing about mediation is that when you finally understand that peace is something you already have within yourself, issues that arise in your life won&#8217;t matter that much anymore and you can approach these in a healthier way without relying on false crutches that offer nothing more then temporary relief.</p>
<p>The reason why I haven&#8217;t been posting that often here is because of this subject I&#8217;ve been talking about in this post. I&#8217;m actually working on an ebook about how important our mind and body connection really is and how to take care of it. The book is laid out to offer practical solutions and skills you can learn and apply in your own lives to easier overcome emotional pain, depression, illnesses and also to focus yourself and reach your goals in life. Even though the book will be made for HSPs, empaths and intuitives the skills can be applied by anyone. Of course everybody on the mail list for this blog will receive a free copy as soon as I&#8217;m done with it, which should be sometime this winter. The book will touch a range of subjects from meditation, mindfulness, yoga, achieving happiness and emotional freedom, herbal medicine, supplements, exercise, acupuncture, floating and more. Basically many techniques and habits you can apply to your life to live happier and healthier, all through a HSP, empath and intuitive perspective.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll keep updating this blog with small bits and pieces from chapters that will be coming in the ebook. Meanwhile I want you guys to comment or email me if there is anything particular you want me to research and include in the book. You can comment at the end of this post or email me at <a href="mailto:alex@infjramblings.com" target="_blank">alex@infjramblings.com</a></p>
<p>Until next post, take care!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In this post I want to shed some food for thought on HSPs (Highly sensitive persons) and their traits. It is widely known that there is simply not just one type of intelligence, we all excel in different areas of life. A type of intelligence that is almost always attributed to HSPs in some regard [&#8230;]</p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Screenshot-2014-04-13-09.24.04.png"><img title = ""class="size-medium wp-image-285 alignright" src="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Screenshot-2014-04-13-09.24.04-300x286.png" alt = "INFJ HSP - Emotional Intelligence and Openness of the Mind Screenshot-2014-04-13-09.24.04-300x286 HSP (Highly Sensitive People) " width="300" height="286" srcset="https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Screenshot-2014-04-13-09.24.04-300x286.png 300w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Screenshot-2014-04-13-09.24.04.png 687w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>In this post I want to shed some food for thought on HSPs (Highly sensitive persons) and their traits. It is widely known that there is simply not just one type of intelligence, we all excel in different areas of life. A type of intelligence that is almost always attributed to HSPs in some regard is emotional intelligence. Being emotionally intelligent enables you a deeper understanding about human functioning and connectivity in the world. You have a greater understanding of how people around you function and why they do the things they do.</p>
<p>It can also give you a deeper understanding about the things you do yourself. HSPs are often feeler type personalities which is why EI (emotional intelligence) tends to be highly developed  among us. As a feeler you are more sensitive emotionally then others and even thought you have a heightened EI understanding, you can easily have bouts where you might experience an difficulty controlling your feelings and maybe even act highly irrational at times. Extroverted feeling personalities in MBTI (INFJ/ENFJ primarily) often run into problems here since they are highly emotional but also extrovert their feelings and judgments. This combination can result in heated situations where you act according to feelings and when the situation has passed you might feel you overreacted or acted unreasonable. Fortunately these type of personalities are also concerned about the well-being of others and often seek out to correct any wrongdoings they might have done others. This is important since they value their morals and doing others wrong will in turn cause themselves great emotional pain.</p>
<p>Statistics tell us that most highly intelligent individuals are also HSPs. We are talking about the population here which is considered the top 2%. It seems to be a common tread that an increased sensitivity to stimuli equals greater understanding of concepts, theories and the outside world. It is said that around 15% of the population is highly sensitive to some degree. About 35-50% of the population is introverts. Introverts belongs to the majority among the gifted population, and the top 2% contains almost exclusive introverted, intuitive HSPs.</p>
<p>What people outside these minorities fail to grasp is that being an HSP and especially an gifted HSP also comes with a hefty price. Belonging to a minority often isolates you from the rest. Most humans find security in what is familiar and reject what is not, same functioning as many other animals on this planet. In other words being different can push you away from the norm and make relationships that much harder.</p>
<p>Heightened sensitivity to stimuli is a neurological trait which you are born with and not something that can be changed. Unfortunately for HSPs even thought our brains work differently the world around us still works as suitable for non HSPs. We are expected to think, act, feel and produce results just like other people even though we are not. A heightened sensitivity is not because our sensing organs like eyes, ears or nose are more developed then other people. The sensitivity comes from a lower threshold for stimuli. In other words we need less of everything when other people need more to reach the same level of excitement, feelings or understanding. HSPs don&#8217;t need many cups of coffee to get them focused. Watching TV doesn&#8217;t make us tired. High pressure and pace doesn&#8217;t make us more motivated to work etc. Just a few examples but generally you could say that in a way  it is the complete opposite of ADHD.</p>
<p>The downside of being an HSP is being unable to shut it off. There is no off switch and this is where the problem comes in. With a lower tolerance for stimuli we overload quicker because our capacity is still the same as other people. HSPs are not superhuman even thought we might have exceptional talents because of our sensitivity. We are simply born with a openness to new experiences that others don&#8217;t have, a lack of filtering. It is this openness that is a common trait among gifted people. As an HSP and intuitive you can perceive the world in a clearer way then non HSPs who&#8217;s world view is primarily based on their previous judgements and experiences. People tend to form who they are and their image of the world through the judgements of their ego. You like this but are afraid of that etc. They react to new experiences based on previous ones and therefor never consider things for what they really are, only for what their ego tells them they think of it. That is an lack of intuition and perceptiveness.</p>
<p>As we all know there are many problems in the world and the majority humans cause themselves. We have a tendency to destroy the environment we live in, scavage our planet until there is nothing left, we are reckless against ourselves and others, wage war against each other over pieces of land, the list is long. What is certain is that the human condition is something entirely different from the rest of the creatures on our planet. An organism that is at war with itself is doomed from the start, and this is what most people fail to realize. There is a widespread close-mindedness in today&#8217;s societies and most can&#8217;t really perceive what is really happening in the world aside from what their ego tells them. As HSPs and intuitive&#8217;s it is important to not judge ourselves like others might do. To not see our unique traits as something to try to change or get rid of because there is nothing wrong with them. Thinking that being like everyone else would make you happier is simply grasping, and grasping won&#8217;t give anyone happiness because the grasping never stops.</p>
<p><a href="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Ape_skeletons.png"><img title = ""class="size-medium wp-image-286 alignright" src="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Ape_skeletons-300x163.png" alt = "INFJ HSP - Emotional Intelligence and Openness of the Mind Ape_skeletons-300x163 HSP (Highly Sensitive People) " width="300" height="163" srcset="https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Ape_skeletons-300x163.png 300w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Ape_skeletons-1024x556.png 1024w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Ape_skeletons.png 1081w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>I think most people would agree that having a higher perceptiveness and caring for the people, animals and environment around you would be a good thing. The planet could sure benefit from having more people with these unique traits and who&#8217;s to say that this is not the next step in human evolution? We started as primitive ape like creatures and our minds have evolved considerably since that. The next logical step would indeed be to expand our mind to comprehend the world around us more, now when we have developed the ability to perceive ourselves. That is for sure some great food for thought.</p>
<p>Until next time, thanks for reading!</p>
<p>Alex</p>
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<p><strong>PS: Here is some recommended reading on Emotional Intelligence and how it can matter more then IQ:</strong></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve have recently started some major rework on this blog to turn it into something better than it currently is. I started this website mainly as an outlet for my own thoughts but in the future I want this to eventually become a more serious blog with lots of INFJ, MBTI and HSP research. I just registered the domain <a href="http://www.infjramblings.com/">www.infjramblings.com</a> so feel free to update your bookmarks. The old address will still work as well. The blog will be getting a new layout and logos in the next few weeks so stay tuned for that.</p>
<p>Here is a long due update for the reading list to keep you occupied while I rework this blog. I&#8217;ve included some mixed books this time and I have read all of them and they are all highly recommended.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align: left"><a href="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41hvupFZuZL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg"><img title = ""class="alignright" alt = "INFJ Books: Recommended Reading List #2 41hvupFZuZL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_ Lifestyle " src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41hvupFZuZL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg" width="213" height="320" border="0" /></a><span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005DI9M4O/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B005DI9M4O&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=inra09-20" target="_blank">The ESP Enigma: The Scientific Case for Psychic Phenomena</a></span></h2>
<p>This is one of my favorite subjects and every INFJ will love this book. The research presented in it is a testament for the true nature of the world and that there is a lot more going on behind the scenery of life then one might thing. Cannot recommend this enough!</p>
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<div><i><b>A revolutionary scientific explanation of psychic phenomena and the nature of human consciousness. </b></i></div>
<div><i>Although much is now known about the brain, relatively little has been determined about where consciousness comes from: What is the source of the “I” in our internal monologue? How does something as nonmaterial as consciousness arise from something material like the brain? Dr. Diane Powell, a Johns Hopkins–trained neuroscientist, has brilliantly reassessed the meaning and nature of consciousness by exploring research on the workings of psychic phenomena. </i></div>
<div><i>Over the past few decades several well-designed and rigorously supervised experiments have documented the existence of telepathic interconnection, clairvoyance, precognition, psychokinesis, and out-of-body experiences. Mainstream science has largely ignored these data because they all defy the traditional model of consciousness as being solely the product of brain chemistry. </i></div>
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<div><i>Building from these experiments, Powell constructs a new theory of consciousness. I ntegrating concepts from physics, neuroscience, and other disciplines, she offers an insightful and intriguing explanation of ESP, provocatively claiming that the existence of psychic abilities expands our understanding and appreciation of consciousness. Psychic abilities are also consistent with findings in modern physics: For example, psychokinesis implies that consciousness is a type of force field, while precognition suggests that the past, present, and future exist concurrently. </i></div>
<div><i>Eye-opening in its conclusions and exciting in its implications, </i><i>The ESP Enigma will challenge your preconceived notions and expand your mind.</i></div>
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<div>Get it here:</div>
<div><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005DI9M4O/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B005DI9M4O&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=inra09-20" target="_blank">The ESP Enigma: The Scientific Case for Psychic Phenomena</a>&nbsp;</p>
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<h2><span><a href="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41XRJTQPHXL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg"><img title = ""class="alignright" alt = "INFJ Books: Recommended Reading List #2 41XRJTQPHXL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_ Lifestyle " src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41XRJTQPHXL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg" width="213" height="320" border="0" /></a>The Highly Sensitive Person<br />
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<p>If you have read some of my previous blog posts you might have noticed that I occasionally write about HSPs (Highly Sensitive Persons). Statistically it appears that a lot of INFJs are also HSPs. This book is the number one resource on HSPs and includes lots of research and great tips on how to make life easier as an HSP. Elaine N. Aron Ph.D. (Author) is a pioneer in this field of research and is an HSP herself, great read!</p>
<p><i>Are you a highly sensitive person?</i></p>
<p>Do you have a keen imagination and vivid dreams?  Is time alone each day as essential to you as food and water?  Are you &#8220;too shy&#8221; or &#8220;too sensitive&#8221; according to others?  Do noise and confusion quickly overwhelm you?  If your answers are yes, you may be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP).</p>
<p>Most of us feel overstimulated every once in a while, but for the Highly Sensitive Person, it&#8217;s a way of life.  In this groundbreaking book, Dr. Elaine Aron, a psychotherapist, workshop leader and highly sensitive person herself, shows you how to identify this trait in yourself and make the most of it in everyday situations.  Drawing on her many years of research and hundreds of interviews, she shows how you can better understand yourself and your trait to create a fuller, richer life.</p>
<p>In <i>The Highly Sensitive Person , you will discover:<br />
<b>* </b>Self-assessment tests to help you identify your particular sensitivities<br />
<b>*</b> Ways to reframe your past experiences in a positive light and gain greater self-esteem in the process<br />
<b>* </b>Insight into how high sensitivity affects both work and personal relationships<br />
<b>* </b>Tips on how to deal with overarousal<br />
<b>*</b> Informations on medications and when to seek help<br />
<b>* </b>Techniques to enrich the soul and spirit</i></p>
<p>Get it here: <i></i><br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0553062182/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0553062182&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=inra09-20" target="_blank">The Highly Sensitive Person  </a></p>
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<h2><span><a href="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51oorqJR3SL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg"><img title = ""class="alignright" alt = "INFJ Books: Recommended Reading List #2 51oorqJR3SL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_ Lifestyle " src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51oorqJR3SL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg" width="213" height="320" border="0" /></a>The Highly Sensitive Person&#8217;s Survival Guide: Essential Skills for Living Well in an Overstimulating World (Step-By-Step Guides) </span></h2>
<p>Another great book for HSPs. This one is a smaller format and more condensed with information that might be useful on daily basis. I like to bring this on trips and vacations sometimes where I know I will be having a stressful time. It keeps me based in reality and reminds me why I feel the way I feel sometimes. Highly recommended if you need some tips on coping!</p>
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<div><i>If you’re a highly sensitive person (HSP), you’re in good company. HSP’s make up some 20 percent of the population, individuals like you who both enjoy and wrestle with a finely tuned nervous system. You often sense things that others ignore such as strong smells, bright lights, and the crush of crowds. Even the presence of strangers in your immediate vicinity can cause you considerable distraction. You already know that this condition can be a gift, but, until you learn to master your sensitive nervous system, you might be operating in a constant state of overstimulation.</i><br />
<i>As an HSP, the most important thing you can learn is how to manage your increased sensitivity to both physical and emotional stimulation. This accessible, practical guide contains strategies to help you master this critical skill. Build your coping skills by exploring the books engaging exercises. Then, keep the book by your side, a constant companion as you make your way through your vibrant and highly stimulating world.</i></div>
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<li><i>Find out what it means to be a highly sensitive person</i></li>
<li><i>Take the self-examination quiz and find out whether you are highly sensitive</i></li>
<li><i>Learn coping techniques indispensable to IHP’s</i></li>
<li><i>Discover how to manage distractions like noise and time pressure at home and at work</i></li>
<li><i>Reduce sensory-provoked tension with meditation and deep relaxation techniques</i></li>
<li><i>Navigate the challenges of interacting with others in social and intimate relationship</i></li>
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<div><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1572243961/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1572243961&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=inra09-20" target="_blank">The Highly Sensitive Person&#8217;s Survival Guide: Essential Skills for Living Well in an Overstimulating World (Step-By-Step Guides) </a></div>
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<h2><span><a href="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51BNXU5LlCL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg"><img title = ""class="alignright" alt = "INFJ Books: Recommended Reading List #2 51BNXU5LlCL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_ Lifestyle " src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51BNXU5LlCL._SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg" width="213" height="320" border="0" /></a>The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World </span></h2>
<p>The best book I&#8217;ve read on the subject of introversion. There is a great chapter in this book about the different neurochemistry of<i> </i>introverts and extroverts and how science have showed that we are actually born with this trait. This is a good book to read if you are having troubles accepting yourself as an introvert.</p>
<p><i>At least one out of four people prefers to avoid the limelight, tends to listen more than they speak, feels alone in large groups, and requires lots of private time to restore their energy. They&#8217;re introverts, and here is the book to help them boost their confidence while learning strategies for successfully living in an extrovert world.</i></p>
<p>After dispelling common myths about introverts-they&#8217;re not necessarily shy, aloof, or antisocial&#8211;<i>The Introvert Advantage explains the real issues. Introverts are hardwired from birth to focus inward, so outside stimulation-chitchat, phone calls, parties, office meetings-can easily become &#8220;too much.&#8221;</i><i>The Introvert Advantage dispels introverts&#8217; belief that something is wrong with them and instead helps them recognize their inner strengths-their analytical skills, ability to think outside the box, and strong powers of concentration. It helps readers understand introversion and shows them how to determine where they fall on the introvert/extrovert continuum. It provides tools to improve relationships with partners, kids, colleagues, and friends, offering dozens of tips, including 10 ways to talk less and communicate more, 8 ways to showcase your abilities at work, how to take a child&#8217;s temperament temperature, and strategies for socializing. Finally, it shows how to not just survive, but thrive-how to take advantage of the introvert&#8217;s special qualities to create a life that&#8217;s just right for the introvert temperament, to discover new ways to expand their energy reserves, and even how, when necessary, to confidently become a temporary extrovert. </i></p>
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<p>I recently switched my daily multivitamin for a delicious juice or smoothie each day, and one of the best decisions I ever made. This helps in keeping my health and wellbeing in shape which is very important for emotional health as an INFJ and HSP. Not only do I get all the vitamins I need but also all the healthy phytonutrients from fruits and vegetables which you can&#8217;t get in any pill. It&#8217;s a great way to start the day and I bought this book to get some recipe inspiration for different juices and smoothies. I&#8217;ve done quite a few and they are all taste great and the book include details on nutrients and health effects of different fruits and vegetables. My favorite is the New Zealand Special, orange, kiwi, banana and Manuka honey, try it!</p>
<p><i>The No.1 bestselling juicing author Jason Vale is back with his ultimate book of juices and smoothies. His complete recipe book contains recipes for over 100 easy and delicious juices and smoothies to help you lose weight, get healthy and feel fantastic. Jason Vale, the inspirational king of juice detoxing and the man who helped Jordan lose 2 stone in 3 months, has compiled his definitive selection of over 100 simple but delicious, low-fat juice and smoothie recipes. Keeping it Simple has the perfect juice or smoothie, whether you want to slim down, get healthy or just need a little juice-boost pick-me-up on a rainy day. With Jason&#8217;s motivational tips and unique &#8216;3-Day Super Juice Detox&#8217; programme you will not only clean your system, rid yourself of physical addictions and get extra energy, but you will also learn the fundamental Juicy Rules for a permanently slim, trim and healthy body. With a complete list of ailments that can be cured by each juice, and a full breakdown of all the minerals and nutrients contained in each recipe, this is the ultimate collection of juicing recipes for full health, extra energy and permanent weight loss. Includes: * Over 100 delicious recipes for juices and smoothies * Jason&#8217;s slimming 3-Day Super Juice Detox * The Juice Master&#8217;s Natural Pharmacy &#8211; juices for common ailments * Complete A-Z of fruit and veg &#8211; how specific vitamins and minerals help health and vitality * Kids Stuff &#8211; how to get your kids to drink fruit and vegetables and love them!  </i></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>It is believed that many INFJs are also HSPs, Highly Sensitive People. I&#8217;ve done posts about HSPs before but if you are not familiar with the term, I suggest you check out this website: http://www.hsperson.com I&#8217;ve recently suffered a bad cold which after it finally started resolving, ended up with me also developing viral bronchitis. [&#8230;]</p>
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<div>I&#8217;ve recently suffered a bad cold which after it finally started resolving, ended up with me also developing viral bronchitis. As I write to you right now I&#8217;m in bed doped up on meds to deal with the pain in my lungs and all the coughing. Having to deal with all of this for the last two weeks I&#8217;ve come to realize that I always get hit by the worst colds or flu viruses every year. Worse then everybody else around me. My roommate infected me and she was only ill for a couple of days and then it all cleared up for her. For me I&#8217;m now closing in on three weeks.</div>
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<div>When I think back about it, it has always been like this for most of my life. I often get multiple virus infections each year, always hitting my respiratory systems the most. As a kid I suffered from asthma which made me unable to do sports sometimes and deemed me unfit for military service as a teenager. I also had a lot of food allergies when I was younger and I have a chronic skin inflammatory disease called rosacea. What I&#8217;ve started to conclude drawing from all my previous experience is that not only am I an highly sensitive person emotionally, but my body is also highly sensitive. I started to do some research online about it and turns out that it is very common for HSPs to suffer from chronic illnesses and catch diseases easier then non HSPs.</div>
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<div>It all makes a lot of sense because I have always been a firm believer that the mind and body is deeply connected to each other. This is a viewpoint that western medicine doesn&#8217;t share but you can find it in Traditional Chinese Medicine and Ayurveda which are based on it. HSPs have a highly sensitive nervous system and this also affects the rest of our body. When one system is not in balance the others become more susceptible to stress and damage. Since many INFJs are also HSPs, I think it&#8217;s vital that we remember to take care of ourselves and our bodies in order to be happy both emotionally and physically. As we all know we INFJs need this in order to cope and function properly in today&#8217;s society with our unusual gifts.</div>
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<div>Here are some great links I dug up for you to indulge in further:</div>
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<div><b>Healing Highly Sensitive Body:</b></div>
<div><a href="http://www.highlysensitivebody.com/highlysensbody.html">http://www.highlysensitivebody.com/highlysensbody.html</a></div>
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<div><b>Sensitive and Stressed:</b></div>
<div><a href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sense-and-sensitivity/201203/sensitive-and-stressed">http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sense-and-sensitivity/201203/sensitive-and-stressed</a></div>
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<div><b>The Highly Sensitive Person And Chronic Illness Connection:</b></div>
<div><a href="http://fibrotv.com/2011/08/the-highly-sensitive-person-and-chronic-illness-connection/">http://fibrotv.com/2011/08/the-highly-sensitive-person-and-chronic-illness-connection/</a></div>
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<div><b>HSPs and Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, and Other Illnesses Perhaps Related to &#8220;Central Sensitization&#8221;:</b></div>
<div><a href="http://www.hsperson.com/pages/2May12.htm">http://www.hsperson.com/pages/2May12.htm</a></div>
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<div><a href="http://www.lumosity.com/">http://www.lumosity.com/</a></div>
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<div><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroplasticity">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroplasticity</a></div>
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<div>The cool thing is that the brain statistics Lumosity outputs after training are split in the different development areas of the brain. My best score is on Attention where I am almost above 90% of the rest of the population. I find it interesting since attention has to do with Se which is our inferior function as INFJs. I believe that the reason I have such a high attention score is because as an INFJ and HSP, I do not have a filter to separate sensory stimuli. I just take everything in and my Ni sorts it and shows me selected things on a conscious level. We are actually more conscious of our surroundings then we think because all the rest of the sensory data is still there subconsciously. Ready to be grasped by our Ni when needed. An example is a game on Luminosity where you have to quickly spot a bird somewhere on the screen and simultaneously read a letter in the center of the screen. All in a couple of milliseconds. Sometimes it was so fast it was hard to see, but somehow I still manage to select the correct letter and spot where the bird was. All because that sensory information is not filtered like most people. I think this is why we often have a tendency to be HSP individuals which are easily affected by strong sounds, lights, smells and easily get emotionally overwhelmed.</div>
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<div>I can recommend Lumosity and it&#8217;s all a highly interesting subject. Lumosity has been proven to work to increase short term working memory, math and help develop attention in people with brain damage or mental disorders like ADHD. Worth to note is that there is no proof that training some of the other brain games on Lumosity could help improve performance in unrelated tasks. It would be interesting to see if there will be any articles and research done on MBTI in correlation to neuroscience and how the brain works in different types.</div>
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<div>Ever since becoming old enough to understand my surroundings I&#8217;ve known I&#8217;m different somehow. As a kid growing up I never really felt I fitted in anywhere, and not now as an adult either. However, now I&#8217;m old enough to fake it. I did not have many friends when I was a kid and I don&#8217;t think  connected to anyone at that age either. I had it rough at home and never liked school so I spent most of my time alone by myself doing things I enjoyed. Of course the older I became the more I wanted to belong somewhere. When you start to reach your teens it is also important since high school can be a pretty horrible place to be alone in, with bullying and pressures to confine to an social ladder. I got my fair share of bullying which leaves a mark for life when you grow up. You learn how people work the hard way. Bullying and pressures from my family to act differently made me think there was something wrong with me. That I was stupid, did not matter or my thoughts and ideas where wrong or not worth hearing. It made me afraid to stand up for myself or believe in myself. I became careless of my own health and lacked any self confidence to believe I could ever be happy. I&#8217;ve been through many rough patches in my life and I&#8217;ve caused myself a lot of pain because I&#8217;ve always thought that I was the problem.</div>
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<div>Discovering MBTI and finding out about my type, INFJ and being an HSP was the push I needed to realize that the way I was feeling is not wrong and not my fault. A couple of weeks ago I did a Mensa (mensa.com) IQ test. Mensa is a foundation that supports gifted people and the tests they use is one of the only three scientifically validated tests for IQ and are not based on any previous knowledge. I was incredibly nervous attending the test and almost in a bit of a panic at the start, my pulse shooting through the roof. I&#8217;ve not done any test in years and I tend to perform bad under pressure when tasks have to be done within a set amount of time. I don&#8217;t like being rushed like most introverts. This test was 50 questions that had to be done in 10min max. The reason why I choose to do this test is that I was hoping it would prove something different about myself and help me build on improving my self confidence.</div>
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<div>I scored 128 on the test and the maximum score is 131. Which places my score higher then 97% of the rest of the population. I&#8217;m convinced that me being a INFJ also contributes to my high test score. I&#8217;m still coming to terms with this since I spent most of my childhood being called stupid from my peers. I&#8217;m a person that never bragged or tried to act better then anyone else in my whole life, always treated everyone equal. It&#8217;s ironic how being gifted and empathic can also cause you so much suffering in life. Drawing from all this self discovery I&#8217;ve done in the last year, I have decided that I&#8217;m done spending my life trying to be somebody I&#8217;m not. Trying to conform to a society and way of living which I do not belong to in the first place. I started therapy half a year ago in hope of being able to get help undoing all the damage done in my childhood and growing up. So far I&#8217;m diagnosed GAD (General Anxiety Disorder) and selective social phobia. Yet some days I wonder if these are not just labels that other people give us to explain why we are different from them. More and more I start to think that my personality and traits are more healthy then most people, there just isn&#8217;t the proper space for someone like me in todays messed up society.</div>
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<div>All I know is I&#8217;m done with it. Done trying to blend in with superficial people that will never understand me anyway. It&#8217;s no wonder I feel so alienated when half of the people my age only care about how long it&#8217;s left until the weekend so they can drink their braincells away. I spent years of my life putting myself in situations which I don&#8217;t even enjoy just in order to fit in somewhere. Well maybe I just don&#8217;t fit and never will, maybe that is the real deal. Just embrace it because I know there is some greater purpose out there for all of us.</div>
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<div>Enough with the ranting, here are some interesting links I suggest you all take a look at. It&#8217;s research on giftedness among different MBTI types and more:</div>
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<div><a href="http://www.sengifted.org/archives/articles/a-synthesis-of-research-on-psychological-types-of-gifted-adolescents">http://www.sengifted.org/archives/articles/a-synthesis-of-research-on-psychological-types-of-gifted-adolescents</a></div>
<div><a href="http://forums.intpcentral.com/showthread.php?22940-IQ-and-Personality">http://forums.intpcentral.com/showthread.php?22940-IQ-and-Personality</a></div>
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<div>Cheers to belonging in the minority, to being awake in a world that is sleeping.</div>
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		<title>INFJ Introvert: On Introverted Problems and Insomnia</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>For some time now I&#8217;ve been thinking about my sleeping patterns and ways that I would like to improve them. From what I heard from other introverts it seems like introverted people are more night owl kind of types then extroverts. We tend to want to stay awake later and wake up later in the [&#8230;]</p>
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<div>Extroverts tend to rise up earlier in the morning which also makes a lot of sense since they get their energy from interacting and being around other people. Daytime is of course the best time for this and rising up early gives you a head start. There are some articles online saying that early risers are the most productive. I think there is some truth to this but I would also  say that it mostly has to do with how productive you are in general and how you manage your time. The nice thing about rising up early is that your energy deposits are at their peak level. But as an introvert and from other introverts I know, we tend to be people that are slow started in the morning. It takes some time until we really &#8216;awake&#8217; and are in our most functioning state. Hence maybe nighttime is a more suitable time of the day for some of us to do our best work.</div>
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<div>Being slow started in the morning is one of the things I always wanted to change. Usually on normal working days it takes me until after lunch before I feel &#8216;fresh&#8217; and at my peak energy level. The hours following waking up in the morning, I feel slow and tired and in the past I turned to coffee as my savior. I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s connected to my sleeping patterns since they are consistent of 7-8 hours sleep each day, maybe this is just part of the introverted nature. As a side note to being slow in the morning the last couple of months I found this amazing medicinal herb called Ashwagandha which has helped me with this tremendously. I now take a teaspoon of the herb before going to bed every night and wake up full of energy, it also makes me fall asleep quicker in the evening. You can read more about it on these links:</div>
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<div><a href="http://www.globalhealingcenter.com/natural-health/health-benefits-ashwagandha/">http://www.globalhealingcenter.com/natural-health/health-benefits-ashwagandha/</a></div>
<div><a href="http://mr-ginseng.com/en/ashwagandha/">http://mr-ginseng.com/en/ashwagandha/</a></div>
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<div>I buy this brand of Ashwagandha:</div>
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<div><a title="Gaia Herbs Ashwagandha Root, 60 Liquid Phyto-Capsules " href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003HD9H0G/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B003HD9H0G&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=inra09-20" target="_blank">Gaia Herbs Ashwagandha Root, 60 Liquid Phyto-Capsules </a></div>
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<div>Introverts do seem to need more sleep then most extroverts to function. If I sleep less then 6 hours, I can&#8217;t function like normally and it affects my mood a lot. Most of my extroverted friends doesn&#8217;t seem to be affected by lack of sleep  to the same degree, and same with hangovers. My theory is that since we introverts collect our energy from inside, and sleep deprivation affects our body and mind, lack of sleep will have a biggest effect on us. Extroverts collect their energy from the external world so it&#8217;s much easier for them to keep up a good mood and motivation even though they feel bad.</div>
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<div>The last year I&#8217;ve been changing my pre sleep rituals to more suit my personality and it has greatly improved my life. I no longer use the computer or watch tv before going to bed. No electronic devices 2 hours before bed has worked to get me relaxed in the evening. Not only does the decrease in stimulation work, but also because most modern led screens imitate a light similar to that of the sun, which prevents Melantonin to be released in the body. Melantonin is the body&#8217;s natural sleep hormone and it is released when it starts to get dark. I now read books instead the last few hours a day and these two things has literally cured most of the insomnia I suffered from.</div>
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<div>Insomnia seems like a common things for introverts and especially INFx types and HSPs (Highly Sensitive People). We are easy stimulated and even the smallest things can keep us awake at night. Like sounds, watching to much tv before bed, having a lot to do the next day or other things that are bothering us which we can&#8217;t stop thinking about. Overtime at work has been my biggest contributor to my insomnia because when I work late my mind is racing from overwork, and then it usually takes a couple of hours for it to cool down. The problem arises when you don&#8217;t get home until late and have to get up early the next day.</div>
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<div>I plan on trying to become an early riser to see if it might help with my insomnia issues, making me more tired in the evening. I&#8217;ll update with a post at a later time concerning the results from my experiments. I think waking up early can be a good thing for some people but for introverts I&#8217;m not yet convinced. I&#8217;ll leave you guys for now with this great article:</div>
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<div><b>Early Riser or Night Owl: Why It Doesn’t Really Matter</b></div>
<div><a href="http://www.lifehack.org/articles/productivity/early-riser-or-night-owl-why-it-doesnt-really-matter.html">http://www.lifehack.org/articles/productivity/early-riser-or-night-owl-why-it-doesnt-really-matter.html</a></div>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Sadly enough, it turns out the most popular posts on this blog is the ones that are about anxiety and INFJs. I know this is a big part of being this personality type so I thought I&#8217;ll do another post about it and try to summarize my experiences further. &#160; (At the bottom of the [&#8230;]</p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div dir="ltr"><a href="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/openphotonet_coffee-philosophy2-.jpg"><img title = ""class="size-medium wp-image-124 alignright" src="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/openphotonet_coffee-philosophy2--271x300.jpg" alt = "INFJ anxiety and stress openphotonet_coffee-philosophy2--271x300 INFJ &amp; MBTI Popular Posts " width="271" height="300" srcset="https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/openphotonet_coffee-philosophy2--271x300.jpg 271w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/openphotonet_coffee-philosophy2--925x1024.jpg 925w" sizes="(max-width: 271px) 100vw, 271px" /></a>Sadly enough, it turns out the most popular posts on this blog is the ones that are about anxiety and INFJs. I know this is a big part of being this personality type so I thought I&#8217;ll do another post about it and try to summarize my experiences further.</div>
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<p><strong>(At the bottom of the post I have also put together an INFJ survival kit of the best products to improve your life)</strong><br />
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<div dir="ltr">I&#8217;m a INFJ and a HSP (Highly Sensitive Person), if you are not familiar with HSPs you should Google it. Basically it&#8217;s a well researched classification for people with unusually sensitive nervous systems, and because of this they struggle with feelings or sensory stimuli. We feel things on a higher scale then others. Looking at statistics HSPs are common among INFJs and INFPs, but they do occur among most personality types to certain degrees. I experience this heightened sensitivity in both my feelings and senses. It is pretty understandable since as an INFJ I am both a feeler and also have dominant and inferior perceiving functions. Se (extroverted sensing), is our inferior function and this is a highly unconscious function together with our dominant Ni (introverted intuition). They operate mostly together in our subconscious and Se fuels our primary Ni with external information.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Our Se basically acts as a balance to our highly intuitive state of functioning which makes us very perceptive of our external environments and other people. This can be both a gift and a curse for INFJs since we take in so much information it can be hard to filter it at times and we can get overloaded. Since our dominant perceiving function is introverted it also gets even more focused and turned inward compared to people with an extroverted equivalent. The problem with introverted intuition as dominant is that since it is introverted we might tend to internalize feelings even without being aware of it.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">I&#8217;ve been battling anxiety and stress on a daily basis for most of my life and a lot of it tend to come from being highly sensitive and intuitive. I even had full blown panic attacks or mania in the past when it is at it&#8217;s worst. Usually my state of being in general influence the magnitude of negative feelings, my anxiety grows worse if there is something bothering me in my life. What helps is dealing with things as soon as you can, because if you let them sit there and bother you in the back of your mind they will make everything worse.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">To much sensory stimuli can also lead to anxiety for me. High uncontrollable sounds, flashing and intense lights and imagery, busy environments, big groups of people and having expectations put on you tend to trigger these feelings the most. Basically things that connects to our senses and feelings which are not possible to control. I get agitated and nervous, can&#8217;t concentrate my thoughts on what is going on and can even feel physically ill. It becomes a downward spiral which side tracks my mood and can bring on other feelings of anxiety completely unrelated to the first cause. For example, an noisy environment can trigger stress which sets off bodily sensations making me feel like something is wrong or I&#8217;m sick. Usually when I calm down or the trigger stops I can realize that it&#8217;s false feelings, but during it feels like being caught in a grip. You can&#8217;t tell if it&#8217;s real or not because your usual state of functioning is suppressed. Many describe it as INFJs living in a constant state of disembodiment, we are more connected to our mind then the physical.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Being very perceptive to things makes you want to be able to control these external perceptions. The problem is most other people do not operate in a Ni state of being which makes it all much more difficult for others to relate to. People disturb you with noise or insist on talking to you when you are busy which makes you unable to focus on anything. To many people talking at the same time makes it hard to separate the words. Hard to sleep with background noise or insomnia from to much stimulation. Being among a noisy crowd of commuters in a train without AC can be a real nightmare, draining your energy quickly when your Ni and Se is trying to make sense of all the sensory stimulation. Since we are introverted by nature we tend to consciously focus in on one thing at a time, multitasking and following what&#8217;s going on everywhere around you can be exhausting. When you can&#8217;t keep up with everything it easily creates stress and anxiety.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Another source of anxiety for me is feelings of perfectionism and high expectations in the self and the external world. It can be that the creative vision you imagined in your mind for your painting, does not appear in the one you created in real life. That you try to express your feelings or self to a person but words don&#8217;t suffice in real life, making it reflect what you meant poorly. Or when you have to impress someone, present yourself or your work and you idealize the perfect outcome for it but in real life you can&#8217;t seem to pull it off like you imagined. It all has a lot to do with self esteem and expectations our Ni put on our self which we in turn fail to accomplish. Then by being introverted feelers we intensify these feelings inward making us unable to escape and cope with them easily. We can always imagine the true ideal and who we want to be, but we can never achieve it because when we do there will always be something else we want, the next step. We are future oriented and this is what drives our ideals also. Needless to say life as an INFJ  is not easy and it&#8217;s understandable why others might consider us moody, melancholic and intense at times.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">It is important to understand as an INFJ that your feelings sometimes tend to go over the top and to realize when this happens. That it is something temporary and it happens for a reason, it&#8217;s your fight or flight response. Your body and mind is telling you that you need to slow down a bit in order to enjoy yourself. Don&#8217;t let it consume you because nothing bad will happen feeling anxiety, it is just a feeling and will pass eventually. You will never defeat it since it is in part who you are but you can learn to live with it.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">As INFJs living in a western and modern society I think we are unlucky, today&#8217;s society is not very adapted for us. It favors everything that we are not and will try to mold us into just that. It is important to remember that we should not try to change our own behaviors because of this. I spent a decade of my life trying to change myself into someone I&#8217;m not, to be more extroverted, sensing and thinking as a male since this is how society tells us to be to fit it. Those years of trying didn&#8217;t bring me any closer to happiness. I just felt <a href="http://infjramblings.com/2016/08/lithium-orotate-anxiety-benefits.html" target="_blank">depressed</a> and even more alienated from the world. I the end I came to the conclusion that you have to be yourself and find ways to cope in life instead, treating yourself and your body better. This in turn will improve your life greatly as an INFJ. Since we have no Si (introverted sensing) function in our stack I think we are one of the personalities to benefit the most from a healthy lifestyle. It grounds us and connects us to our bodies better. Feeling detached from my body and the world have been very common for me and also made me question my sanity at points in my life. Exercise have greatly improved these feelings and the  overall anxiety I experience.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">If you still have not come to terms with the aspect of being an INFJ, I suggest you take a step back and see what you can do to improve your everyday life to better suit you. Even if it means changing your job, relationships or where you live I promise you it&#8217;s worth it. Being an INFJ is not easy but there is no point in making it any harder then it already is.</div>
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<a href="http://infjramblings.com/2016/08/lithium-orotate-anxiety-benefits.html">Read more about tips to beat depression here.</a><br />
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<p><strong>To give you a head start on ways to improve your life as an INFJ, I&#8217;ve put together the INFJ survival kit. The following are products that I use almost daily and that helped change my life:</strong><br />
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<p><strong>Rhodiola Rosea, supplement</strong>. This is an adaptogenic herb that helps manage healthy mood and stress response. The most natural and safe anti depressant that can be used daily, long term. Even people who are not depressed can use this to boost their mood levels.</p>
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<strong>L-Theanine, supplement. </strong>Theanine is the amino acid in tea that is responsible for the relaxing effect that tea has on the mind and body. In isolated form Theanine is one of the safest and natural anti anxiety treatments there is. It is so safe that no toxic dosage has been able to be established, meaning you can probably take as much as you can fit in your stomach and it still would not hurt you. Yet, at only 100mg dosage it relaxes you without making you tired and improves cognition and mood. This is my favourite supplement and I highly recommend it to everyone no matter how healthy you are. Modern life is full of stress and this is the best antidote I have found.</p>
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<p><strong>Pelter Optime Noise Reduction Earmuff. </strong>If you have issues with high noise levels at work or home these are ideal to wear while also look like normal music headphones. Great for relaxing in noisy environments and also great for meditation wherever you might be.</p>
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<p><strong>Zafu Yoga Meditation Cushion. </strong>Meditation can be a difficult habit to build but is one of the greatest things there is to build mental power and emotional stability. I found that investing in a proper cushion and making it a ritual using it greatly improvement my motivation to stick with meditation as a daily habit. Meditation is free but humans don&#8217;t tend to value things that are free as highly. Spending some money on this cushion might just be the push you need to stick to a daily meditation habit.<br />
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<p><strong>Calm &#8211; Meditate, Sleep, Relax. </strong>This is a great and FREE app to use when starting out in meditation. Meditation can be a confusing thing for people who never tried it and never experienced relaxing in that way before. This app helps!<br />
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<p><strong>Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can&#8217;t Stop Talking. </strong>This is THE book on the subject of introverts. Filled with useful information, research and tips to help introverts and non introverts understand what this trait is all about. If you are an INFJ this is key for you to reach new heights in your life.<br />
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<p>Sadly enough, it turns out the most popular posts on this blog is the ones that are about INFJ anxiety under stress and depression. INFJ under stress often leads to regular anxiety and if prolonged, also depression. INFJ depression can be more intense and this is the case for all feeler type personalities. I know anxiety is common and can be a big part of being this personality type so I thought I&#8217;ll do another post about it and try to summarize my experiences further.</p>
<p><strong>At the bottom of this post I have also put together an INFJ survival kit of some of the best products to overcome anxiety, stress and depression for good.</strong></p>
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<div dir="ltr">I&#8217;m a INFJ and a HSP (Highly Sensitive Person), if you are not familiar with HSPs you should Google it. Basically it&#8217;s a well researched classification for people with unusually sensitive nervous systems, and because of this they struggle with feelings or sensory stimuli. We feel things on a higher scale then others.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Looking at statistics HSPs are common among INFJs and INFPs, but they do occur among most personality types to certain degrees. I experience this heightened sensitivity in both my feelings and senses. It is pretty understandable since as an INFJ I am both a feeler and also have dominant and inferior perceiving functions.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Se (extroverted sensing), is our inferior function and this is a highly unconscious function together with our dominant Ni (introverted intuition). They operate mostly together in our subconscious and Se fuels our primary Ni with external information.</div>
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<h2>INFJ Under Stress</h2>
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<p><img title = ""class="size-medium wp-image-124 alignleft" src="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/openphotonet_coffee-philosophy2--271x300.jpg" alt = "INFJ Anxiety Under Stress and Depression openphotonet_coffee-philosophy2--271x300 INFJ &amp; MBTI Popular Posts testfix " width="271" height="300" srcset="https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/openphotonet_coffee-philosophy2--271x300.jpg 271w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/openphotonet_coffee-philosophy2--925x1024.jpg 925w" sizes="(max-width: 271px) 100vw, 271px" />Our Se basically acts as a balance to our highly intuitive state of functioning which makes us very perceptive of our external environments and other people. This can be both a gift and a curse for INFJ under stress since we take in so much information it can be hard to filter it at times and we can get overloaded.</p>
<p>Since our dominant perceiving function is introverted it also gets even more focused and turned inward compared to people with an extroverted equivalent. The problem with introverted intuition as dominant is that since it is introverted we might tend to internalize feelings even without being aware of it.</p>
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<p>I&#8217;ve been battling anxiety and stress on a daily basis for most of my life and a lot of it tend to come from being highly sensitive and intuitive. I even had full blown panic attacks or mania in the past when it is at it&#8217;s worst.</p>
<p>Usually my state of being in general influence the magnitude of negative feelings, my INFJ  anxiety grows worse if there is something bothering me in my life. What helps is dealing with things as soon as you can, because if you let them sit there and bother you in the back of your mind they will make everything worse.<br />
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<h2>INFJ Anxiety</h2>
<div dir="ltr">To much sensory stimuli can also lead to anxiety for me. High uncontrollable sounds, flashing and intense lights and imagery, busy environments, big groups of people and having expectations put on you tend to trigger these feelings the most. Basically things that connects to our senses and feelings which are not possible to control.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">I get agitated and nervous, can&#8217;t concentrate my thoughts on what is going on and can even feel physically ill. It becomes a downward spiral which side tracks my mood and can bring on other feelings of anxiety completely unrelated to the first cause.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">For example, an noisy environment can trigger stress which sets off bodily sensations making me feel like something is wrong or I&#8217;m sick. Usually when I calm down or the trigger stops I can realize that it&#8217;s false feelings, but during it feels like being caught in a grip.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">You can&#8217;t tell if it&#8217;s real or not because your usual state of functioning is suppressed. Many describe it as INFJs living in a constant state of disembodiment, we are more connected to our mind then the physical.</div>
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<h2>Perception Under Stress</h2>
<div dir="ltr"><a href="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/infj-anxiety-under-stress-and-depression-anxiety.jpg"><img title = ""class="alignright size-medium wp-image-386" src="http://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/infj-anxiety-under-stress-and-depression-anxiety-300x214.jpg" alt = "INFJ Anxiety Under Stress and Depression infj-anxiety-under-stress-and-depression-anxiety-300x214 INFJ &amp; MBTI Popular Posts testfix " width="300" height="214" srcset="https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/infj-anxiety-under-stress-and-depression-anxiety-300x214.jpg 300w, https://infjramblings.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/infj-anxiety-under-stress-and-depression-anxiety.jpg 750w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>Being very perceptive to things makes you want to be able to control these external perceptions. The problem is most other people do not operate in a Ni state of being which makes it all much more difficult for others to relate to.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">People disturb you with noise or insist on talking to you when you are busy which makes you unable to focus on anything. To many people talking at the same time makes it hard to separate the words. Hard to sleep with background noise or insomnia from to much stimulation.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Being among a noisy crowd of commuters in a train without AC can be a real nightmare, draining your energy quickly when your Ni and Se is trying to make sense of all the sensory stimulation.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Since we are introverted by nature we tend to consciously focus in on one thing at a time, multitasking and following what&#8217;s going on everywhere around you can be exhausting. When you can&#8217;t keep up with everything it easily creates stress and anxiety.</div>
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<h2>Expectations Can Trigger Depression</h2>
<p>Another source of anxiety for me is feelings of perfectionism and high expectations in the self and the external world. It can be that the creative vision you imagined in your mind for your painting, does not appear in the one you created in real life.</p>
<p>That you try to express your feelings or self to a person but words don&#8217;t suffice in real life, making it reflect what you meant poorly. Or when you have to impress someone, present yourself or your work and you idealize the perfect outcome for it but in real life you can&#8217;t seem to pull it off like you imagined.</p>
<p>It all has a lot to do with self esteem and expectations our Ni put on our self which we in turn fail to accomplish. Then by being introverted feelers we intensify these feelings inward making us unable to escape and cope with them easily.</p>
<p>We can always imagine the true ideal and who we want to be, but we can never achieve it because when we do there will always be something else we want, the next step. We are future oriented and this is what drives our ideals also.</p>
<p>Needless to say life as an INFJ  is not easy and it&#8217;s understandable why others might consider us moody, melancholic and intense at times.</p>
<div dir="ltr">It is important to understand as an INFJ that your feelings sometimes tend to go over the top and to realize when this happens. That it is something temporary and it happens for a reason, it&#8217;s your fight or flight response.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Your body and mind is telling you that you need to slow down a bit in order to enjoy yourself. Don&#8217;t let it consume you because nothing bad will happen feeling anxiety, it is just a feeling and will pass eventually. You will never defeat it since it is in part who you are but you can learn to live with it.</div>
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<h2>INFJ Depression</h2>
<div dir="ltr">As INFJs living in a western and modern society I think we are unlucky, today&#8217;s society is not very adapted for us. It favors everything that we are not and will try to mold us into just that. It is important to remember that we should not try to change our own behaviors because of this. This would only give you INFJ depression.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">I spent a decade of my life trying to change myself into someone I&#8217;m not, to be more extroverted, sensing and thinking as a male since this is how society tells us to be to fit it. Those years of trying didn&#8217;t bring me any closer to happiness. I just felt depressed and even more alienated from the world.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">I came to the conclusion in the end that you have to be yourself and find ways to cope in life instead, treating yourself and your body better. This in turn will improve your life greatly as an INFJ.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Since we have no Si (introverted sensing) function in our stack I think we are one of the personalities to benefit the most from a healthy lifestyle. It grounds us and connects us to our bodies better. Feeling detached from my body and the world have been very common for me and also made me question my sanity at points in my life. Exercise have greatly improved these feelings and the  overall anxiety I experience.</div>
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<h2>Conclusion</h2>
<div dir="ltr">If you still have not come to terms with the aspect of being an INFJ, I suggest you take a step back and see what you can do to improve your everyday life to better suit you. Even if it means changing your job, relationships or where you live I promise you it&#8217;s worth it.</div>
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<div dir="ltr"><strong>Being an INFJ is not easy but there is no point in making it any harder then it already is.</strong></div>
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Read more about how to <a href="http://infjramblings.com/2016/08/lithium-orotate-anxiety-benefits.html" target="_blank">beat depression easy in our other article.</a><br />
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<strong>To give you a head start on ways to improve your INFJ depression, anxiety and when under stress, I&#8217;ve put together the following INFJ survival kit.</strong></p>
<p><strong>These are products that I use almost daily and that helped change and shape my life as an INFJ for the better:</strong></p>
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<p>It is so safe that no toxic dosage has been able to be established, meaning you can probably take as much as you can fit in your stomach and it still would not hurt you. Yet, at only 100mg dosage it relaxes you without making you tired and improves cognition and mood.</p>
<p>This is my favourite supplement and I highly recommend it to everyone no matter how healthy you are. Modern life is full of stress and this is the best antidote I have found.</p>
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