Comments on: INFJ Love Dilemmas: INFJ Relationships, Romance and Sexuality

By: tash

tash — Wed, 17 Mar 2021 07:17:19 +0000

same lmao

By: EdgeKing55

EdgeKing55 — Fri, 17 Apr 2020 18:20:46 +0000

I have to agree with the covert narcissists comment. I’ve dated two INFJs and they were both covert narcs. I have never been so emotionally abused in my life.

I’ve spoken to dozens of other people who have dated INFJs since and its the same story every. single. time. The problem is INFJs can not see how abusive they are to others around them.

I think it takes A LOT of self work before any INFJ can function in a healthy relationship.

By: Juan

Juan — Fri, 28 Feb 2020 15:39:31 +0000

sometimes we have to endeavor our love to a blunder as we make mistakes, we also grow and that is access that point of understanding , because if we have none then we are none. In terms i believe that we are susceptible as everyone else. everyone is not without faults.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Wed, 05 Dec 2018 16:59:22 +0000

People like you shouldn’t be allowed to have a voice.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Wed, 05 Dec 2018 16:59:22 +0000

People like you shouldn’t be allowed to have a voice.

By: Seraphina Thawne

Seraphina Thawne — Wed, 20 Jun 2018 07:16:44 +0000

‘Mental illness’ is taking it too far, though I wholeheartedly agree with you on the not-so-altruistic part.

By: Seraphina Thawne

Seraphina Thawne — Wed, 20 Jun 2018 07:15:23 +0000

I agree with you. Reading posts like this makes me feel like saying ‘meh’ and grimace. (INFJ here) I mean just because the percentage of total population SEEMS to be the smallest doesn’t mean every INFJ is a precious unicorn.

By: Seraphina Thawne

Seraphina Thawne — Wed, 20 Jun 2018 07:10:22 +0000

Ah well. Apparently INFJs are supposed to be angels/unicorns/saints/tortured souls/too-good-for-this-world.
Not this one. :)
I don’t have a problem with forgiving too easily AT ALL; in fact, I can hold a grudge till the end of time and it’s much harder to stay in my good book than my bad one. :)
Also yes, as Rational NT mentioned above, my ‘love’ for others is really calculated. I take a different piece from everyone, but it’s a non-zero sum again so it’s not exploitation, more like mutual benefit. I don’t see anything wrong with it. To claim you don’t want anything in return is to deny human nature/put yourself on a pedestal. That’s boring. :)

By: Beth

Beth — Fri, 19 Jan 2018 22:57:08 +0000

Lol. This whole post is like “INFJs can do no wrong, can’t be in relationship because other person is bad.

ENTP here. Careful darling INFJs. Your ESTP side is showinggggg.

By: Yasssss

Yasssss — Sat, 25 Nov 2017 21:07:50 +0000

Since the MBTI test shows the percentage of how much you are of that type, I think no one is fully ESFP or something like that. Since everyone has a different personality and perspective of things, Rational NT for example, claims that all INFJs as a whole have mental illnesses. As an INFJ, I find that very funny XD