Comments on: INFJ Sexuality and Relationships

By: Janea Taylor

Janea Taylor — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 17:31:43 +0000

Thank you all for your presence and attention. It is soooo appreciated. You are so very loved. Please know that. <# Take good care of each. We are all we have. Love is all we need. Live. Love. Learn. Keep Going. Spiral Out. Don't be a tool…..be a TOOL. Fight like a brave like the Red Hot Chili Peppers then turn into a Pumpkin and get Smashed. Then rock out to some Metallica to come back down to this beautiful home we call MOTHER earth. Thank you Grandmother! <3

By: Laura

Laura — Sun, 26 Aug 2018 00:22:28 +0000

I also have just come across this site and also crying over the resemblance of my life. I’ve done other research and yes I am a full on INFJ. On one hand I’m so grateful to know this, takes so much pressure off that something is seriously wrong with me. On the other hand feeling like it’s a curse to. I’m 45 years old and 90% of my life feels like a blur. I just want out of my head!! Here’s hoping knowing what we are and finding sites like this can help us.

By: Zethu

Zethu — Sun, 20 May 2018 14:38:41 +0000

okay, please forgive me for any typos here… because I am crying right now and I am not sure whether I should leave this reply or not. It’s my first time on this website but I think I have finally found someone who understands what it really means to be an INFJ. What you wrote really resonate with me, I have tried to convince myself that I am not an INFJ but each time I do, I discover more things about myself that just scream at me about how weird I seem to other people.Not to mention that I have also took many different personality tests and the results are the same. I just do not understand why people on the internet think INFJs are these rare glowing souls who know everything. when infact we have real problems like you have just said above… I would go on and on but I got here because I was actually trying to understand the meaning of being antisocial and see if I am antisocial or not, being an INFJ is not something I’ve accepted just like that, I am still trying to figure out if “they” really categorized us INFJs correctly.

By: Allison

Allison — Fri, 15 Sep 2017 17:43:59 +0000

This was wonderful to read. So me. I am grateful to know I am not alone. On that note, I have read that us INFJs are bad people to cross and it is definitely true of me that I put up with a lot, but once I hit my limit, watch out. I blow up and then walk away and don’t give the other person another chance to hurt me again. I have only walked away from about four people in my life, and I am happily married, largely due to the fact that I hold my husband in such high esteem in the sense that I admire his kindness and good heart to the point that they trump any difficulties we may have in the marriage. In other words, I over look a lot of jerky stuff he does because I think he is one of the best humans I have met. (In other words, as you said, I idolize him.) For that matter, he does the same for me, because I can be a real handful when I’m pissed. Does anyone have any insight as to why a peace loving, problem resolving INFJ would also be one of the worst people to cross? Because I am and I am not proud of the fact.

By: R

Sat, 04 Jun 2016 04:55:58 +0000

That first paragraph is heartbreakingly true.

By: The ENTP

The ENTP — Wed, 27 Jan 2016 11:55:21 +0000

The thought I keep coming back to when reading this, albeit a bit crude, is; stop trying to control what it is that you have no control over. “It” being the world and everything else in it.

When wondering if something is seriously wrong with you or with this world, I think the answer is both.

You are a product of this world, and seeing as the world is imperfect, so are you. The same goes for everybody and everything else, that is a product of this world.

I find solace in accepting this fact. It takes a load off.

Thank you for your ramblings, they are ever so interesting!

By: Sarah

Sarah — Sat, 27 Jun 2015 04:17:21 +0000

Wow, this is so me. I thought I was psycho for feeling so horribly depressed about friendship issues and fallouts, constantly feeling like an emotional fireball, but it’s my wiring, and I am not alone in this struggle. And there ARE ways to help get a grip and help control it, thank the heavens!!

By: Gigi

Gigi — Fri, 24 Oct 2014 19:59:33 +0000

……it’s quite interesting reading your “own” thoughts written by someone else…thank you so much for writing this….

By: Courtney

Courtney — Fri, 22 Aug 2014 19:10:03 +0000

Unfortunately, I have to agree. I am an INFx and I am bi-polar and have issues with depression. It’s sad, but when I read this, it made me feel like I wasn’t so alone with the whole bi-polar and depression thing being an INFx.

By: Alex

Alex — Thu, 05 Jun 2014 03:23:57 +0000

Hi Pamela,
Thanks for reading and really appreciate you sharing. I’m borderline on the P/J also, but low introverted feeling so definitely not an INFP. I would not say I’m a christian but I do believe in Jesus and he is a great source of inspiration to me. Jesus was an INFJ for sure ;)